So much of our sense of self is a result of cultural conditioning. This little self, being unreal, needs constant tending and defending. This is knackering and the source of most of our suffering.
Rather than freaking out about LGBT people questioning rigid, inherited identities, we’d all be more relaxed and kinder with each other if we followed their lead.
The Obvious? 
So true. It’s such a tragedy that kindness is seen as a weakness.
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