Every day when I tidy up and put things in the dishwasher there is this running commentary from my chattering monkey:
“Why is it always me who does this?”.
“This is clearly the way that things were meant to be put in this dishwasher”.
“How I put things into the dishwasher matters, getting it wrong means I haven’t tried hard enough”.
Noticing that this happens is the first step to not taking it seriously.
Work in progress…
The Obvious? 
This is the constant point of contention between Andrew and myself. How everything is loaded into the dishwasher….He’s horrified at how I do it. As I’m the only person in the household who does load it, then really, does he need to say anything? 🤣
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